26 Self-Care Tips for Empaths & Energy-Protecting Activities

If ever there was a time for empaths to prioritize self-care… it is now. The world is going through changes that will leave a lasting impression on current and future generations.

Think about the following questions:

Is there one particular thing the entire world could benefit from? 

One thing that could impact workplaces and communities?

Something that could improve all relationships? 

And that children could learn from?

The answer: empathy. 

Everyday Empaths

There are many women who tend to lean into empathy as a way of processing the people and world around them. Your ability to perceive and intuit other peoples’ emotions naturally and organically makes you an empath.

Basically, you feel a lot.

‘Empath’ sounds a little trendy and maybe even indulgent to those who are unfamiliar. However, empaths know that having this special gift can be quite a rollercoaster.

It can range from pleasurable and fulfilling to draining and cumbersome.

Lastly, empaths can struggle with what little control they have over the ride.

As for the empath who already finds that they’re more highly sensitive than others? You may be wrestling with emotional exhaustion.

So, whether you’re curious about this insightful skill, need some tips for managing your gift, or simply want to relate in good company, these self-care tips for empaths should help.

TIP: You’ll want to grab the Ultimate Empath’s Self-Care Guide & Workbook, which accompanies this blog.

Self-Care for Empaths

Make Sense Of Your Feelings

Identify the feelings you’re having by name (reference this list) and become familiar with where they stem from or when they typically occur.

Make note of the physical reactions your body has to particular emotions: tense jaw, flushed skin, feeling hot, restless, or numb. 

Keep a journal for a few months and simply note the feelings you had each day; notice any daily, weekly, or monthly trends.

Dive into what triggers can agitate your emotions and send you into overwhelm like caffeine, graphic content, loud music, or even certain personality types.

Learn to Set Boundaries

Establish time limits for invasive or draining personality types (think toxic friends).

Consent only to heavy or deep information that you feel comfortable receiving and processing.

Avoid your triggering stimuli like certain movies, music, or conversation topics and ask your loved ones to help you enforce them.

Identify warning signs that you are near emotional capacity so you can retreat when overwhelm is near.

Own that your needs are vitally important to your mental health and make no excuses around reinforcing them.

Take Time to Recharge

Limit screen time to avoid excessive exposure to news and social media.

Share a safe word with intimate partners, friends, or family members that will give you an instant and no-questions-asked time out.

Prioritize some time of the day that’s just yours and use it to feel good, cozy, connected, and secure. A mindful bedtime routine can be life-changing.

Clear your mind by distracting your senses: light candles, burn incense, wrap up in a texture you love, drink something hot or cold.

Turn Emotions Into Action

Tell others when you are intuiting what they’re feeling if you want to offer yourself as support.

Advocate for issues if you find certain injustices draining you emotionally on behalf of others.

Report: if you intuitively feel something might be amiss, use curiosity and care to determine if someone needs an advocate. Doing something always feels better for the empath than doing nothing.

Have open conversations with others that normalize empathy, sensitivity, emotional intelligence, compassion, and sympathy.

Create Productive Outlets

Do something creative and fluid with your body: dance, yoga, swim, etc. 

Access your emotions without exacerbating them by journaling or meditating.

Channel your range of emotions with activities and crafts that highlight color. Think mandala coloring books, scrapbooking, beading, crocheting or painting.

Spend time with your furry friends or get outside in nature. Enjoy simply ‘being’ around calming, receptive energy.

Find Peace In The Overwhelm

Learn to accept and surrender to the fact that you just can’t control everything.

Pursue a belief in a higher purpose or meaning for life (explore this workbook for inspiration).

Embrace the magnitude of this perceptive gift and all that comes with it.

Remind yourself that emotions run through you like water; the tides will eventually change and even themselves out.

Accept the responsibility of being an empath by sharing your journey with others.

Empaths Are Necessary Members of Society

Prioritize your well-being by nurturing your empathic self.

Managing your emotions and protecting your energy is no small feat, especially when you absorb the energy and feelings of those around you.

Your ability to navigate through the ebb and flow of emotions, both your own and those of others, is a testament to your emotional intelligence and empathetic nature.

But as an empath, self-care must remain a top priority.

Take pride in your journey of self-discovery and self-care as you continue to cultivate your unique gifts.

The world desperately needs more healthy empaths!